This is a list of suggested books that can help children grapple with anxiety and emotional challenges.
Finding out that a child has a genetic condition can be extremely challenging for parents. It is well documented that receiving a new diagnosis can evoke a range of emotions. For some parents they may feel a sense of relief that they finally have a diagnoses and finally have answers. Although for many parents it can be an enormous shock, parents are often frightened, disturbed, upset, grieving and feel constantly vulnerable. This often is a very challenging and traumatic time in parents lives, there are an enormous amount of questions that run through their minds. A common reaction is to worry about the long term impacts upon the child and the family. Amongst many other concerns parents may wonder: “How will my child go at kindergarten or at school“, “Is there any funding to support me?“, “How will I know if my child needs additional intervention or support?“, “Are we going to cope as a family?“, “Will my child lead a normal and happy life?“.
It is important for parents to give themselves some time to process what they’ve found out and put all the pieces together. They need to remember that their child is still their precious wonderful child, that hasn’t changed just because of a diagnoses, it means that parents are more equipped to know more about their potential challenges and how they can best help them to ensure they reach their absolute fullest potential.
It is valuable for parents to engage with a Genetic Counsellor to discuss the diagnoses and to ask any questions they may have. Genetic counsellors are often a wealth of knowledge and can also guide parents to the right support networks in their areas.
For parents, that initial whirl wind of emotions and seeking knowledge on what is Klinefelter syndrome/XXY can be overwhelming, daunting and exhausting. For many it is just the start of a long journey to reaching out and implementing the most appropriate support networks and support team for their child. Some children experience very few of the potential signs and symptoms and associated health co-morbidities, while other children are more severely affected and will benefit from early intervention and will need a good professional health care team. While a child with Klinefelter Syndrome/XXY may have some of these signs and symptoms, they are very unlikely to have all of them. Most individuals with Klinefelter syndrome/XXY lead happy and fulfilling lives. It is important for parents to be know that being aware of potential challenges their child may or may not face allows for the right early intervention to be implemented if and when it is needed. Signs and symptoms of Klinefelter syndrome/XXY vary by age. Some effects Klinefelter syndrome MAY have on children Some effects of Klinefelter Syndrome MAY include
Post diagnosis, the focus is usually on the child (quite rightly), and parents are often forgotten in the mix. Some parents work very hard to ensure the best interventions and support are put into place.
However, in an attempt to survive, parents often forget about their own emotional needs, it is essential that parents keep an eye on their own mental and physical wellbeing. If they feel like they need extra emotional support they should consider seeing a counsellor or a psychologist, often reliable and supportive friends are a good avenue for additional support. AXYS are also here for parents and provide a wealth of knowledge and support. We can provide one on one phone or email support and also have casual catch ups and information sessions.
Sex chromosome disorders can often be a sensitive topic. Some parents want to advocate and educate about their child’s variation; others prefer not to discuss it, for the sake of their child’s privacy. It is up to parents to decide on the best approach for their family and child and is their decision.
Life does not stop with the discovery of an extra X or Y chromosome, nor will your child stop growing. Life will be different, but not without many of the same joys and challenges that all parents feel in their children’s lives.
The most important thing to remember is that Klinefelter syndrome/XXY has a very wide range of effects, signs and symptoms, the severity of which varies considerably from person to person. Many of our members are successful in their chosen fields of employment and in their personal relationships but others struggled at school, find it difficult to maintain relationships and may need some level of support throughout their lives.
Receiving a diagnoses as a parents it extremely challenging but also arms them with the knowledge and tools to support their children. We know that early diagnosis and appropriate support and early childhood intervention can make a huge difference, children with an earlier diagnosis are the lucky ones and more often than not lead a fun and fulfilling life.
AXYS are here to help and have a number of support mechanisms available depending on where a parent is at in their journey, people shouldn’t feel alone, AXYS are here.
This is a list of suggested books that can help children grapple with anxiety and emotional challenges.
Reading to children is vital and should be a big part of a child’s life. Here is some suggested books that should be ready to the child in prep or foundation.
A research study exploring if individuals with mosaic Klinefelter syndrome have the same phenotype as individuals with non-mosaic Klinefelter syndrome
A study exploring the different variants and phenotypes of Klinefelter syndrome.
AXYS 2018 conference presentation by an occupational therapist talking about how therapy should be play based and can be integrated into several aspects of everyday life.
AXYS annual conference 2018 presentation from a primary school teacher discussing how we can ensure all children have the opportunity to learn and thrive and how the primary school setting can be adapted to each child.